'FEEL IT'

I don’t smoke…. I don’t booze… I don’t have any other bad-habits and I never even had a girl friend…. Most of us will be proud of this and the number will increase if I remove the last line (no girl friend).I am telling this so confidently because I have a lot of friends (fortunately r unfortunately) who fall under this category and they are very happy.
I have a serious doubt i.e. down the lane when we get older and when we see our children trying all these things at some point of time we may feel that what is there in all these things a and why didn’t I try any of these things in my teens. Did I miss something which I should have at least tried?
If you get this thought then at that point of time you cannot do any thing.
(coz u cant bunk classes even if u wish, u cant lie to your parents, cant go to late night parties etc….)
Most of the people don’t try these things because they feel that these are bad and they may get addicted to these things , but if we are confident about our-selves then we wont get addicted to any thing.
How can you say that our life is complete without trying all these things (I don’t say we have to get addicted, just have a FEEL of them).
How can u say that I have enjoyed my life without tasting the puff of cigarette on a rainy day or never even tasted a sip of vodka and lastly how can one miss the sweet fights and late night messages of a girl friend.
I have mentioned a few of them but there are lots n lots of other small things which we may regret later on in our lives if we don’t do them.
I have decided that at least I will try to do some from these from the wish-list.

Goal

I just want to ask one question---> How happy r u??
I just asked the same question to myself, the answer was a bit sceptic .What I feel is everyone will have lots of dreams and lots of goals(I too feel it,there is no meaning of life if we don't have a goal), and we constantly try to achieve them, and the mean time while achieving that we have to put lots and lots of hard work and at times we may have to sacrifice lot of things to achieve that and in the mean time we may even lose our focus and seriously feel is it achievable and even after that we continue fighting, we may reach our goal.
Is that the ultimate thing of our life.Is it what for we have made a lot of sacrifices,then even after achieving that are we really happy.....
Because most of the things which we feel as ultimate,may not seem the same after we achieve them(Grass on the other side is always greener).
After achieving one goal,we want to explore more and more we want to set new targets to achieve and in between we just don't see what we are missing in our life.

Is happiness not a goal which we want to achieve in our life, is it not important!!!
Is it not worth to strive to be happy. So what i seriously believe is before setting any goal if we just ask one question that whether we are happy or not??? and is happiness the price what we are paying to achieve our goals, and is that worthy enough? if so there is no problem in doing that.

The only motive in writing all this is just to say that what ever we may achieve in our lives if we are not happy then it's useless.

For me personally the greatest thing in my life is to be happy(that is the goal which i have)
That doesn't mean that i am not happy now but i just want to be happy always that is the goal of my life.